Some people said that it's impossible for  two people of the opposite gender to likely become the best of friends without falling in love. Fitrah manusia katanya. I don't think I entirely agree with that. Yes it is fitrah manusia lelaki dan perempuan itu saling attract one another. but friendship is one kind of mutual attraction too. I admit throughout my WHOLE ENTIRE LIFE SEPANJANG 20 TAHUN ni of course I've had feelings for some of my guy friends but it's not love. It's the longing of wanting someone to listen to you to always be there for you. A partner to act silly with. It's not love. It's a strong bond of friendship. We often salah tafsir these feelings with love thus sometimes ruining the friendship between this boy and girl.

I've got a male best friend. No. Actually I got a few of male best friends. And I am entirely absolutely sure that I won't be falling for any of them 'baboons' hahahahaha (no offense) Not because they're not attractive but because i don't date FRIENDS! And they won't date me either LOL we're cool.
With these guys I can talk literally about everything. EVERTHING. From dirty jokes to religious talk real quick! They're like my girl friends except I cant hug them or touch them lol

so yeah GIRLS and BOYS can be the best of friends! xoxo